November Gratitude Challenge | Day 30

from sunrises to sunsets, changed perspectives, frosty leaves, words of encouragement and kindness, reflections literal and otherwise, popcorn, bunting, fall colors, the smell of fresh baked bread, open windows, quiet corners and space to breathe, open windows, and cool air, adventure, the smell of rain, a dog's soft ears, maple syrup and roasted vegetables, the blessings of a life well lived, celebrations and sorrows, hope, grace, learning to listen to ourselves and to those around us, community and magic, music and warm tea... we are grateful. 

thank you for celebrating this month with us... for taking the time to notice what's around you, for looking, for sharing. 

we are so grateful.

 “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.” 
~Melody Beattie

November Gratitude Challenge | Day 29

“If you want to be reminded of the love of the Lord, just watch the sunrise.”

― Jeannette Walls, Half Broke Horses

 
 Moment by moment the sky changed from dark to grays to pastels. And then finally, right on time, the brilliant bright light peeked over the horizon. I suppose that most don't cheer the sunrise, that act which happens every day, whether we are there to watch it or not. But to watch it, really, isn't it a marvelous show?

I'm thankful for:

the wonder of every day,

hot coffee,

those who labor for my comfort,

stories that captivate,

the rhythm of the tide,

good company,

laughing out loud,

a savory salad and a sweet crepe,

my dinner date,

the fan overhead,

sleep.

~image and text by kristy cho | @kristycho7

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November Gratitude Project | November 28

if you would have asked me a year ago, when that

wise old woman was going to start showing up,

i would have told you she was lost. . .

today she is starting to shine a bit, speaking her wisdom

with tenacity and grace. i only have to remind myself to slow down,

take a few deep breaths and give her time to speak her mind.

if i do this, nine times out of ten she has the ability to calm me down

and see things more clearly.

i am grateful for her; grateful that she did not

give up on me and was so patient.

i hope by next year at this time,

we are bosom buddies.

~words + image by Cathy Sly

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 25

happiness is not the absence of problems but the ability to deal with them resiliently - grateful to have this idea come to me today!

~ image and text by Sarah | @featherwildsarah

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 24

hello there, friends,

today we've invited our dear friend, kelly ishmael, to write a little something special for us. we were completely blown away with her story and it's connection to gratitude. i hope it resonates with you, too. kelly is a mother, writer and photographer, living in the midwest, blogging at minding my nest. you can connect with kelly there or on instagram @kellyish. thank you, kelly! we are so grateful for you.

b + L

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With a Little Help from my Friends


Two weeks ago at this time, rather than being gathered around a Thanksgiving table with my family, I was, instead, gathered at a women’s photography retreat in northern California. Forty-two women from around the globe met up at Westerbeke Ranch for a three days of inspiration, learning, and creative connection.


It was an incredible experience.


So, in addition to the inspiring classes, as residents at Camp Firefly we were treated to a magical setting, charming cabins, and delicious food. Plus, we also had the opportunity to start each day with either a guided hike through the rolling hills of Sonoma County or a guided yoga practice with our fellow camper, Vanessa. And because staying connected – heart, head, and hands – has been my focus this year, I chose yoga.


I’ve taken a fair amount of yoga classes over the past 15 years, and one of the things that I really appreciate in a yoga instructor is that they don’t take themselves (or yoga for that matter) too seriously. Which is exactly what I loved about Vanessa’s class. Because of her gentle and compassionate spirit, her class was accessible for all levels of students. And I just felt completely at ease.


Near the end of class on Friday, we had worked through a gentle flow series and she was guiding us through some balance postures. Which, in general, just so happen to be what I struggle with the most. But especially on that day… probably because I’d had two cups of coffee. At any rate, as I am unsuccessfully trying to balance on one leg and shine my heart to the sky, Vanessa comes up behind me and gently asked, “Is it OK if I help you?”


Let me pause right here to say that asking for help is not exactly in wheelhouse… just ask my mom. Fiercely independent is more like it. But something about being at camp in that class made me feel safe. So I nodded my head, graciously accepting the support. And as Vanessa gently pulled my torso into hers she whispered, “It’s OK… I’ve got you. Lean into me.”


I’ve been thinking about that lovely exchange off and on for two weeks. Someone to lean on when you’re feeling shaky… isn’t that what friends are for? And more specifically to photography, having a more experienced friend to boost you up… to encourage you and make you feel safe. Support like this can make all of the difference.


I know this from personal experience.


My experience at Camp Firely was small dose of what I have experienced in the past five or so years that I have been practicing this art. This connection to like-minded souls… kindreds on this journey in discovery. It is truly one of the unexpected joys of photography for me. One for which I am so, so grateful.


In closing I would just like to express my thankfulness to Beth and Lindsay for inviting me here today. But also for the special community they have created for us, guiding us with their intentional practice of gratitude. Encouraging us to see our lives differently. And special thanks to all of you for the fellowship and support you have shown me along the way.


Happy Thanksgiving!


Love, Kelly

November Gratitude Challenge | Day 23

for light

for feeling lighter
for flowers brought inside
for meatless monday enjoyed by all four family members
for power hour
for quiet time

~ image and text by Leah McKay | @tinylittleseahorses

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 22

it can be done. gluten free cinnamon rolls. so grateful for the first cinnamon rolls i've eaten in six and a half years. and after eating them this afternoon with coffee, there are a few left. breakfast is going to be glorious.

~image and text by elizabeth patten | @bits_of_sunshine

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 21

Grateful for this practice of noticing even though it's dark when I leave work now. It was raining and my hands were full and I had to go to the grocery store, but I stopped when I saw the beautiful leaves on the wet pavement. 

~image and words by Jill McLaughlin | @greenhillstudio

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 18

Gratitude for open windows, freshly stocked fridges and pantries, playing outside, family, music and paint and kindness. For B. who has been my rock and voice of sanity these past few days and always, but especially today. For faith because God is always God. Thankfully, humans don't decide his/her nature or narrative. For pulling the narratives apart and letting the sunlight catch them when I feel too small and overwhelmed. for twinkle lights on the deck. the smell of roasting veggies. pretty leaves, autumn rising. holding all three of us.

~words and image by Keishua Arthur | @keishua_

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 17

Thankful to live in a city where Sunday drives in the country are just 20 minutes or so away. Cruising around quiet roads and rolling hills was just the pause we needed after the last week.

~words and image by Shanna Mallon

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 16

Gratitude for the sweetest moment on my flight to San Francisco. A woman sat next to me on the plane, she must have been in her late 70’s or 80’s, petite and hardly spoke a word of English. After we ate our snacks and drank our ginger ale she looked at me and in broken English asked me where I was going. And I asked her. And then she said "My son pick me up". And then concerned look, “You?” (Who was getting me?) I tried to find out if she had checked bags and started to worry - she said, “I'll go with you.” I took that to mean she would follow me to baggage claim.

Then the flight attendant came by and asked her similar questions. I asked them if she had bags, did she need help getting to ground transportation. They assured me she had someone coming to the gate for her. But then, as we were starting our decent to land (seat backs and tray tables in an upright position!), she unbuckled and started to go! I quickly tugged her back down – “Not yet, not yet!”

Once we touched down and we were getting ready to get off the plane, I told her to sit tight and wait, they had a wheelchair coming for her. She was anxious. She grabbed my hand and said, “You give me kiss.” I nearly burst into tears. Then as I said goodbye and walked away she says loudly "Thank you, love you"! Sutures for a broken heart my friends, tiny human interactions healing my hope, faith and trust in this world.

~ image and text by Vanessa Simpson | @focus_in_photography

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 15

Beautiful backlit spiders webs in the church railings. So glad I keep my camera in my handbag for these random moments! My camera makes me notice, but it also makes me stop and notice for a little bit longer whilst I faff around taking a shot, and then I revisit that image, that moment again when I up load to my computer. Grateful for my camera and the way it makes me more present in my day and in my moments and in the world around me.

~image and text by debs209

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 14

Grateful tonight for pockets of peace in my day. I was asked, "How do we protect ourselves?" when we are in fearful times. One friend says, just take the next right step. Then we'll figure it out as we go, just as women have always done. Another points to the concerned friends who show up in her life and check in. Another refers to the keepers of light all across the world, all those who we don't know but who step up to do the right thing. I am thankful tonight for all of these folks, plus the peaceful river and the benevolent woods.

~image and text by Lisa Dankers

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 11

Grateful for ~ A moment of pure calm watching the sunrise this morning ~ Walking in the cold sunshine and then being able to enjoy the feel of big fat raindrops falling on my skin ~ Rainbows against dark grey skies ~ Seeing buzzards flying so close I felt I could reach out to them ~ Time stitching, once my chores were done ~ Books of gratitudes, my own and others too ~ A velvet dog keeping me company, softly snoring in the quiet ~ A new dress, freshly sewn, hanging on my door.

~words and image by Emily.

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 10

For a long time I couldn't get behind the gratitude practice. I didn't understand how to be grateful when my world felt upside down and inside out. I knew I should be grateful but actually practicing it was hard when my sights were set on all the negative things I was or had experienced. How could I be grateful when my life felt hard.

 
When I finally leaned into my discomfort and began to face my feelings and thoughts around those feelings, I realized that I had been holding myself back from experiencing joy. I wasn't enjoying my children, my husband, my hobbies, my passions, my food, my life. Once I accepted a few things, took hold of the current stage of my life, I realized that I had done so much and that I was missing out on what was in front of me because I was too busy looking back. In learning to be present I learned to be grateful.

Gratitude is not something you can experience unless you understand that gratitude lives in the present, the present moment of our daily lives, routines, and its idiosyncrasies. I'm grateful for this lesson, and even more grateful to finally participate in a gratitude challenge to help me continue to stay present in my life as it is now.

~words and image by Katiusca Gutman

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 9

Today I came across Tish Harrison Warren's essay "Courage in the Ordinary," and her words spoke right into the beautiful chaos of my Nashville split-level. Amidst my freelance hours on the laptop, getting up to comfort a toddler, spooning yogurt and blueberries, wiping his nose, putting him down for a nap, going back to my laptop, talking to my husband, washing a dish, answering an email, I read this:

"A prominent New Monasticism community house had a sign on the wall that famously read 'Everyone wants a revolution. No one wants to do the dishes.' My life is really rich in dirty dishes (and diapers) these days and really short in revolutions ... But I’ve come to the point where I’m not sure anymore just what God counts as radical ... this is what I need now: the courage to face an ordinary day — an afternoon with a colicky baby where I’m probably going to snap at my two-year old and get annoyed with my noisy neighbor — without despair, the bravery it takes to believe that a small life is still a meaningful life, and the grace to know that even when I’ve done nothing that is powerful or bold or even interesting that the Lord notices me and is fond of me.

"Whether in Mongolia or Tennessee, the kind of 'giving my life away' that counts starts with how I get up on a gray Tuesday morning. It never sells books. It won’t be remembered. But it’s what makes a life. And who knows? Maybe, at the end of days, a hurried prayer for an enemy, a passing kindness to a neighbor, or budget planning on a boring Thursday will be the revolution stories of God making all things new."

~words and image by Shanna Mallon

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The November Gratitude Challenge is still going strong. Each weekday, we are celebrating the gratitudes in our lives by sharing words and an image from our community. If you'd like to join us, there's still plenty of time! You can sign up on the blog or by using the link in our Instagram profile. We'd love to have you!

November Gratitude Challenge | Day 8

I can't remember her exact words, I'm sure they were beautiful and poetic (years ago from camerashymomma) which is not my forté but they were powerful enough for me to soak them in and then keep them handy in time of need. I even made myself a sign that I attached to my inspiration board as a reminder.

We get so stuck in our ruts, in our perceptions. I know I do. It's so hard to climb out of them and tear them down. It's a conscious, challenging effort to look in from the outside and question your motives, identify them then make the necessary changes to alter your perspective.

A simple one for me - I used to hate rainy days. I'd get depressed and felt like it was a lost day. Two things changed my perspective on rainy days, on a larger scale an event several years ago that made me appreciate every moment of life and on a smaller scale my tall rubber boots. I love to wear them and walk through and jump in puddles. Now I can get excited about a rainy day.

I'm grateful for people who share inspiration so freely. I'm grateful for rain and rubber boots.

~words and image by Rebecca Laflam

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The November Gratitude Challenge is still going strong. Each weekday, we are celebrating the gratitudes in our lives by sharing words and an image from our community. If you'd like to join us, there's still plenty of time! You can sign up on the blog or using the link in our Instagram profile. We'd love to have you!

November Gratitude Challenge | Day 7

Grateful for the ability to exhale as the sun rests and prepares for a new day.

~words and image by fightcf#breathe

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November Gratitude Challenge | Day 4

i crumble today, heading head first down a big black hole.

i block everyone out but the dog, and retreat to safety.

i allow myself to feel, and let my emotions flow; i write

and i cry. i see how miscommunications can so easily

lead to misunderstandings. i don't lay blame, but rather acknowledge the raw feelings and why they are there.

i use tools, that i have learned from wise teachers and pull from

past experiences.hoping to find release and light.

slowly the pain eases and some possibilities arise.

i understand i can change my mind tomorrow, but for right now

it seems right.

 

i am grateful for noticing, grateful for moving through the pain

and into the light. grateful i did not hit force quit like i use to.

grateful for the beauty i find every day in this life.

  

tiny things i noticed. . .

a one lone rose in the yard, how good it feels to wrap my hand around a warm cup of tea, juice from my apple dripping down my hand, the smell of root vegetables braising, packing for a gathering, how good the dog is at licking away tears and how beautiful the fog was laying over the river this afternoon.

~words and image by Cathy Sly

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today is the fourth day of our november gratitude challenge, where we are featuring an image and text from the hello there, friend community. details are on our blog. if you'd like to play along, there's still plenty of time! you can sign up on the blog or using the link in our instagram profile. we'd love to have you! b + L

November Gratitude Challenge | Day 3

i'm in the midst of embracing middle age, and feeling grateful for being able to shed many of the rituals and regimens of trying to appear youthful. it is freeing up time in my life and space in my medicine cabinet.

 ~words and image by Tara

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today is the third day of our november gratitude challenge, where we are featuring an image and text from the hello there, friend community. details are on our blog. if you'd like to play along, there's still plenty of time! you can sign up on the blog or using the link in our instagram profile. we'd love to have you! b + L